“Tip #2 – 20 Proven Tips You Need To Know To Reach Your Goal In 2010″
“The Second Part Of Reaching Your Goal Is Your Ability To Receive”
More and more I hear people vent their frustrations at having a good education and also having job experience but for some reason, and this is the frustrating part…they always seem to fall short of their goals. Year after year they just come up short of their goals.
They naturally ask, “Why?”
I believe that I can sum up their problems in one word…beliefs! You see it’s your beliefs that are the operating programs you live by. Your beliefs define what is possible and impossible. The real kicker is that most of your beliefs are not really even yours. They are beliefs handed down by others…who by-the-way didn’t get much of a result from them either, and accepted by you at an age when quite honestly you just didn’t have the experience base to know what you were doing.
Negative beliefs can sabotage your most earnest desires by giving you the sensation that you aren’t smart enough, you didn’t go to the right school, no one else in your family was successful so why you? Beliefs can also bring with them the sensation that even if you were successful, you wouldn’t be able to handle the success, or worst you just can’t handle another failure.
None of these circumstances are really true; they are simply your beliefs. Where I find people really running into problems is how they try to handle their beliefs. Most want to struggle against the beliefs, try to deny them, fight them, or just try to block them out of their minds altogether.
The problem is that all of these approaches only make the beliefs stronger because they focus energy and attention to the beliefs. This approach is never going to produce the results you’re really looking for.
You don’t have to understand the old belief to move on. What you do need to do is create a new belief, a new habit, one that is directed toward your goal. Not one riddled with doubt but one dripping with certainty…the certainty that you have already achieved the object of your desire.
In my first video tip I mentioned that there were 3 things necessary to reach your goal. You must first ask, and then, second, be willing to receive and finally, third, you must take action. The process of creating a new belief is that process of receiving. If you have set a worthy goal, that is one that will not only benefit you but those around you, but some belief keeps getting in your way time and time again, then it is time to create a new belief that is congruent with your goal. This is part of the process of asking.
What good is a pitcher without a catcher…it wouldn’t be much of a baseball game. The same applies here. What good is a goal, to ask for something that would improve your life, without the belief that allows you to accept it?
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“The Law of Attraction – Part 2 Interview With Andy Smith – Andy Smith Band”
Skill and talent are never enough in the face of the fear of old beliefs. They will derail your success every time. You must create new beliefs and forget the old one that just don’t work! This is the process of finding your true self. Listen as Andy Smith, of the Andy Smith band, explains how his fears stopped his success dead in its tracks… and how he used the techniques he learned in our master mind group to move through his fear. He learned the power of commitment and purpose. You can hear it in this video.
“The Law of Attraction – Part 1 – Interview With Andy Smith-Andy Smith Band”
This is part 1 of an interview I had with Andy Smith of the Andy Smith Band on the law of attraction.
The Law of Attraction is always in operation in our lives. We may think that it only comes into meaning for the BIG events in our life. But the truth is, it’s the smaller consistent events that occur which lead to the extraordinary attraction that become life changing events.
Listen to this interview with Andy Smith of the Andy Smith Band as he explains how this law of attraction process and the techniques he learned in my master mind group led to extraordinary events in his life and his band’s direction that brought him and his band success.
“The Key To Better Relationships”
I know that I said that the newsletter would probably only be on a monthly basis.
I thought that other commitments would sort of limit anything more frequent.
But the questions have been coming in fast & furious, and from the way that were written, I can tell that these are serious issues to those who submitted them and the sooner they can find some direction the better.
One particular issue has resurfaced again and again.
Watch the video and you’ll see what I mean…
“What Will You Attract This Year?”
It seems that on any given evening you can see the news reports that the economy is in dire straits, there’s political upheaval around the globe, and that the country might be headed for another depression.
Is the end really that close?
I mean at any social gathering you observe pockets of people, deep in discussion, offering the latest info on cataclysmic events. Isn’t that enough to convince anyone that the end is near? No! Not yet. There may be other things you want to consider first.
For instance, the news is usually a one half hour broadcast. However, not all of the one half hour is made up of the news itself. At best, the NEWS portion is only fifteen minutes long. That means, in the whole wide world, the worst that has happened that day can be summed up in fifteen minutes of broadcast.
What happened to the other 1425 minutes in the day? Could it be that something good might have happened?
Of course it did! There is good all over the world. In the same city where a devastating car bomb exploded, somebody, had a birthday, got an A on a test, or kicked the winning goal. In another part of the globe, a family is about to purchase and move into their first home. The point is, there is always contrast and there is always balance.
If you are like most people, your burning question becomes, “If this is true what determines which part I experience?” You already have the answer to this question. Consider this, “What have you asked of life?”
You see if you don’t know what to expect from life, your goals, what you expect to find when you reach your destination, then you are at the mercy of outside forces. You will be like those who sit each night, glued to the TV, waiting for someone to tell you which way to go, what to do, what to believe.
This lack of direction can only produce one thing, confusion, which will only result in fear and doubt.
Universal law is very impersonal. You attract what you want, but you equally attract what you don’t want. In the final analysis, your experiences will be the result of the dominate thoughts you hold.
Turn off the news for a moment. Don’t be led to believe that the entire world is headed for doom. Remember, if all you do is focus on chaos, you won’t be disappointed. Alexander Graham Bell, inventor, said, “Sometimes we stare so long at a door that is closing that we see too late the one that is open.”
Make it a point to notice the good going on all around you and watch your attitude begin to change. When that happens, the experiences you have in life will also begin to change.
Mark S. Kearns, M.A., N.H.D is an Executive Consultant and certified LifeSuccess Consultant.
“Ask Your Most Burning Question”
How would you like to have your most burning questions about the law of attraction finally answered? How would you like to finally understanding how you create the events in your life, what stops you from increasing your income, obtaining better health, having better relationships, or obtaining more business.
You would really be surprised at the variety of questions I received in a day about the law of attraction. Some people are simply new to the concept of natural law. They may have recently seen one of the many videos about the law of attraction and how to attract abundance and prosperity in your life. They may have read a book or someone may have introduced them to an audio recording on the subject.
Some questions just reflect a curiosity about the law and whether you can really change your world by changing your thoughts, as though it were just that easy to change your pattern of thinking. Some have pursued quick courses that have left them confused, even angry that they weren’t able to create the changes they wanted overnight as advertised. There are definitely many misconceptions circulating about how these natural laws operate.
The one thing that I have noticed in the many years I have studied this subject and coached individuals and corporations on the subject, is how unique all of these questions are. It is a real reflection on the diverse qualities that make up each and every one of us and our personal understanding of who and what we really are. It is simply fascinating to read all of the different aspects by which people, just like you, approach the concept of the law of attraction and the power of thought.
For instance, some worry that it might interfere with their religious convictions. That is, it might violate some teaching to even entertain this type of idea. While others believe that it reflects too much spirituality, which they mistakenly equate as a religious concept.
Some are technical questions such as how long they should visualize their goal? Some individuals have been mistakenly led to believe that simple visualization is the real key to obtaining what they desire. It is a part of the key, but only one part. There are other more important things to consider.
I think that in these days and times it’s important for us to get as close as we can to being on the same page about how and what we attract. If you know the right places to look, there is certainly enough bonafide information available from trusted, proven sources to give clear answers to any question you may have. Your goal should really be, and any trusted information should help you, to move toward the experience that allows you to answer your own questions and trust the source of those answers!
To help with this process, I am starting a new newsletter/blog designed simply for the purpose of answering any questions about how the law of attraction operates. If you will simply go to http://www.yourinfinitesuccess.com/questions/ you can enter any question you would like about the law of attraction. Each newsletter/blog will focus strictly on answering your questions in a clear, concise and practical a way as possible. You will not only find the information interesting but useful. After all, the law of attraction demands that you gain knowledge through experience.
Thriving From Change
The winds finally begin to subside and only the rains and occasional tropical wind gust remain. As the day progresses into night even they are replace by an eerie calm. The storm is over, and now the cleanup and rebuilding begins.
Weeks go by and finally electrical power is restored, although intermittent power outages still continue for a while. At last I can finally stop the generator, and put down my chain saw and just take everything in for a few moments.
All around me are the reminders that disaster has struck a fierce and crushing blow. My experience began with the howl of Hurricane Gustav’s winds, in distorted concert with the sounds of roofing and siding being ripped off. As the winds increased I could hear the sounds of tree limbs cracking, trees uprooting, along with the intermittent sounds of tornados and micro-bursts of howling wind and building materials of every imaginable kind flying through the air.
As the storm progressed a new but familiar sound was heard, electrical transformers crackling in the distance as my home, my neighborhood and city are plunged into darkness. Make no mistake, nature has brought about change.
…Now what!
Although my experience was the recent hurricanes it could have been a flood, fire, tornado, earthquake, or even ice storms. Every part of our globe experiences some form of natural disaster. And the thing that they all have in common is that they create change. Like it or not, things change. The important question is how do you respond to that change?
Some change is predictable, that is we consciously set the events in motion to create that change. We apply for a new job, we eagerly move to a new city for new opportunity. We focus on that change and look forward to it.
On the other hand, some events were not consciously planned for, like storms. And the loss of a home, business, or job creates immediate and unexpected change.
I should know I lost two businesses in the wake of Hurricane’s Gustov and Ike. Those losses presented two choices, cave in to the stress and pressure of the lost or use that change to create even greater opportunity.
I choose the latter. I wanted to embrace the opportunity that was presented. I know that the law of attraction is ever present and in motion.
In my next posts, I’ll have a video that will explain how to approach catastrophic events and thrive from the change.
“Through The Law of Attraction You Gain Confidence, Abundance, And Awareness”
As a part of the natural laws, the law of attraction is unceasing in its action and activity. It is closely align with all other natural laws, especially that of the law of polarity.
Today, we might speak of the law of polarity as the law of contrast. In every event, every circumstance there is polarity; there is contrast, contrasting possibilities, points of view, opportunities, etc. As students of the law of attraction, we want to look at as much of the information made available to us as possible. We must test everything that is presented to us through inspiration to pick out that which is valid to our evolution. From this knowledge we acquire abundance and prosperity, better relationships, stronger family ties, and more courage and self confidence to do the things we truly desire.
Regardless of intellect, it is experience, both as observation and as interaction that ultimately will teach us the value and proper use of the law of attraction.
It is my intention to provide you with the best possible information for you to choose from. For thousands and thousands of years so much has been written about this mysterious law attraction and I hope to bring you this information in a form that is understandable and more importantly usable.
If you are a sincere student of the law of attraction, then please join our free law of attraction master mind calls. It is more than just a teleseminar, its audios and videos all design to raise your level of awareness about natural law.
Listen to the video below and if you haven’t already done so, enter you first name and email address in the box to the side and be a part of our next call.
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“Attract The Attributes You Desire”
What type of attributes have you attracted into your life? Your attributes are your skills and talents, your characteristics, the quality of who you are and desire to be. If you know your attributes, then it becomes much easier to find the right job or profession, determine who would be the best partner and even determine who might be your best client or customer.
Watch this blog to learn the value of knowing your attributes.
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Don’t Let Old Beliefs Hold You Back
This short video explains how new ideas meet with resistance from old beliefs. If you know about it, then you can be prepared. However, most people are not aware of this process nor the period of gestation that all ideas require. The video will explain.
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